This writing is for both of you, boy
and girl.
Why you want ex-girlfriend /
boyfriend back? Why just now you can see she / he has a lot of advantages that
never seen before? After we meet with other people, we make a comparison
obviously your ex-girlfriend / boyfriend is much better. Aware or not that is
our mistakes. When she / he lost, we try to find her / him again. But sometimes
we might be too late. They may have been with others or are married.
We broke her / his heart, we said
they so many drawbacks. But, do we examine ourselves? Your mistakes that you
had make, maybe?
They cried when we left. They left
themselves with question did they made wrong or mistakes to you. Or how big
their mistakes until we are willing to leave them.
Factor Broke Up With Ex-Girlfriend /
Boyfriend
Let's look at the fracture factors
which may occur in a relationship. Three main reasons may be is yourself, your
spouse, or third person. The third person is not a new lover but maybe family
or people who you or your spouse really respects. If people that we can love,
that will categorized by yourself or your spouse factor. In simple word, you
make fraudulent.
But when studied and investigated
rarely people will admit mistakes happen is because of them. This is true! Sure
we will blame others.
1. Broke up because of yourself
If we looked back, we will give a
variety of excuses for broke up. The most clearly, when we are started our
speech to break a relationship without proper consideration, we will be back
looking our ex-spouse. We are regret for what we did before.
Separated due to us could be because
we are not attracted to them anymore. Or maybe result from your 'player'
behavior. We could not resist the desire when see others who seem more
beautiful / handsome than our spouse.
It is maybe also because we did not
want to give commitment in a relationship because in our mind, we are still
young and still not satisfied to enjoyable thing. Or maybe in our mind we think
we not been able to bring loved ones into a far more serious relationship like
marriage.
And perhaps we think of the immature
nature of our spouse. Their behavior makes us musty, disgusted and hate. Then
we leave them. And they're cry for continuing relationship.
Until at some stage, you will surely
regret because only indulge young soul without thinking your future. Once you
broke up with them, you are establishing relationship with others, riotous or
maybe you worked hard to achieve success in life. If with others, you see that
your ex much better. If we're riotous, one time you expect to have a spouse to
remain in your life. If you are succeeding in career, you feel your lives are
not complete without a spouse. These things will make you missed your
ex-spouse.
Furthermore, when you often follow current
developments themselves you saw they were getting pretty, sexy maybe, or more
mature. This time you definitely will surely feel incoherent. At this moment
you slowly evaluate yourself. Your mistakes! You could see the superiority of them
that you never seen before. Or you never have seen because of your ego.
2. Broke up because of your
ex-spouse
Broke up because of your spouse
usually make we suffer. They asked to break up for various reasons. Maybe it’s because
she has found someone else that much better than you. Or maybe they want you to
find spouse who is much better than themselves because they thought you are too
good for them.
It is rare situation where someone
who was omitted tries to get their ex-lover back. But this is not impossible if
we think what they told is true. For example, they give the reason to break up
because we are lazy, ill-tempered and immature. And then we examine ourselves.
We find the answer YES; we are immature, ill-tempered and lazy. If this is the
cause, sure some of us will try to find our ex back. What for? Because we are too
love of them. We try to change ourselves for the better.
However, if they really is cheating,
it is impossible to we want and try to get back our ex-girlfriend / boyfriend.
It is better looking couple so much better than him. Is not that so?
3. Broke up because of third person
Broke up caused by a third person,
as mentioned earlier is not because of a new lover. If caused by the new lover,
it is the reason that the first or second. Because ex-spouse or your own self.
Third person here is someone close
to you or close to your spouse. They
evaluate both of you whether appropriate or not to be together. For example,
parent, brother or sister or relatives most probably you respect. On the ground
of your spouse or you may not be mature couples, lazy, ill-tempered, and so on.
Such this broke up is usually not
difficult for us to get back together. Why? If true the mistake is on your
side, and you immediately fix it, sure people will be able to accept you again.
However, if you still defend yourself with your bad behavior, you only can pray
for hope for them accept you back.
Why want your ex back?
This question actually has been
explained a little in the above verses. Actually, you can ask yourself why you
want your ex-girlfriend or your ex-boyfriend back. This is maybe some reasons;
because you have realized that you are guilty, or maybe you love your ex-spouse
back because they now are different, they are more beautiful and attractive?
All the reasons only can be judge by
you. However, you must make an accurate assessment. If you want you ex-spouse
as a life dead couple, let your assessment based on the mind and not because of
lust. The choice from the lust will not bring you relationship to anywhere. It
is just temporary. When you choose based on lust, the attraction of them sooner
or later will lose from your eyes; you would start to be indifferent to them.
You will choose to be with your ex
back because you have made judgments accordingly. You made mistakes because
leaving them a time ago. You blind to assess their superiority. This is the
most appropriate for you to make your life partner.
How to get your ex back?
Actually, it’s quite difficult to
get your ex back. What more if the broke up happened because you. You choose to
break up and now you want your ex back.
Their wounded heart need to be
treated. Their ruined life is so difficult to treat. It is more hurt if they
really love you but suddenly you want to separate from them.
Get your ex back is a big challenge
but it is possible if you know the right way. Here are some important tips that
may be useful to try to get your ex back who we had leave.
1. Remove your ego
If you really want them back, remove
your ego. Ego is a huge obstacle for them to return and receive you. Because of
ego we broke up, so why not if you put aside the ego to regain your
ex-girlfriend / ex-boyfriend heart.
2. Admit your mistakes
Once you were removing your ego, and
have identified your mistakes, confess it. You must express to them that you are
really feel guilty because causing the separation on your relationship before.
What is the reason that only you know. This time you should be honest to them.
Please apologize to them.
3. Ready to get critic
Who would not be angry and hurt if omitted?
The first challenges for you in process to get back your ex is a rejection of
them to back to you, and at the same time you may be receiving the words of a
very painful thereof. Why? It’s because she is very upset with you action
before. So you should be ready.
4. Continue to persuade and show
enthusiasm
At the beginning we expressed a
desire to be back with our ex-girlfriend / ex-boyfriend, they would refuse.
Mostly from the peoples experienced right. What more if you give them reason
that not convince them to accept you back. Continue try to persuade them. At
this time, they may be trying to avoid from you by change the phone number,
remove your Facebook account from their list, or blocked any contact services
between them and you.
Try to get back any contact services
of you and them. You certainly know their friends, right? So it is not
difficult to get it back. The important thing you have to show is your effort.
Only then they will believe that you are really committed to them again.
However, you should make sure that
you are still not too late to have your ex back. Make sure they are not married
or may already have a new spouse. If you do not believe their new spouse afford
to make your ex happy, nothing wrong if you try to get your ex back.
Just to remind here, before you
decide to act to break up with your girlfriend / boyfriend it is much better
you think about it in a professional manner. So that one day you do not have to
bother to persuade your ex back to you again.
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