How To Tell Someone You Like Them?

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Actually to tell someone we like them is not too difficult. Just need the courage and willing to accept whatever answers from them soon. But that's the problem. We have no guts and are not willing to accept rejection!

It’s right or not?

The question either bold or not show up for two conditions. The first, whether we know each other with people we like or the second, we are not known each other but we knew about them. The significance here may be able to be they might know us but never say hello. Or they did not know us, but we always keep abreast of them. And from there we fell in love.

People we know better and perhaps even close to us could be next door neighbors, friends of the housing place, classmates, and colleagues. Or described as a person from the same source but we do not get too close or be a good friend of them. We just exchanged greetings and exchange smiles.

Well, here are a summary of the types of people that we like:

1. People we know and are very close to us.

2. People we know but do not close.

3. People we know, but they do not know us.

Enough of three parts only and we would peel the three parts of this and find a solution on how to express our feelings.

People we know and are very close to us.

Take the example of the first. The most critical example. We know them from an early age and grew up together. And that person could be our own neighbor. Yes, probably while a kid time does not arise in the mind a love feeling among us, the only most fun on kid's age is just playing.

But up to a point, probably in the teens or adult, our feelings change over the time. We felt there was a different feeling in us against them. Slowly we like and love them not just as a best friend. The things are be question mark to ourselves; do they also have the same feelings to us? Do they can fall in love with us? Because since small play together without any feeling. Know the bad nature or attitude in self each other. Arguably too know each other.

The thing that make you feel nonsense when you see their casually reaction when with us. Like nothing to show shame to us. In a word, they never show that they have the same feelings like us. It is quite disappointed to heart even not try yet.

Start your move before it's too late.

This should be done, make the first move. Do not continuously to punish yourself with harbor your feelings. Regardless of them are in front of our neighborhood, or we know their parents very well and did not hesitate to show our naughty behavior in front of them. In a word, they like our own parents. If you take action too late who's lost?

But, how you want to start it? If you are already taking care of them, taking care of their welfare, there is no obstacle to you again. Unless you always just ignore them, you just need them when through a difficult time, or maybe you only contact them just when you want to contact. You felt nothing special. If that's you, you should change. Change yourself to start taking care of them.

But if you just want to start, you have to be patient before expressing feelings to them. It’s may take several months or years. Why? You have to start to purify yourself to do so. What the mean here? It’s mean that your sincerity in your action when you do something. If you are just doing this but cannot wait to express your feelings to them not impossible, it's will make them misunderstood your intentions. They will assume you are not sincere. Very dangerous! In addition to seal their misinterpreted about your intention, you can also learn to do something with sincerity.

But don't you lose your heart if they say you are weird. Give smiles to them and say is wrong for you to start taking care of themselves? We do not know what the answer might come out of their mouth or maybe they'll just keep quiet. Or maybe even they would say, "Do not do things like this. I feel awkward." Just ignore their words. Keep doing to take care of them but be caution. Don't make them feel confined. Do not be lose heart because now you just fall in love with them. Your fault here, you did not show good qualities of you first. So you have to accept their words and continue your efforts.

Here we ignore your character in front of their parents. If we want to peel involves the family, it's very long discussion. Here we assume you have no problems with their ​​family. Even their family is very fond of you. We will discuss it later.

If this level is exceeded, there are appearing other obstacles. You do not know how to express your feelings to them. You feel shy because you know them since childhood but suddenly you want to change the status with them.

The first thing you should do after you implement the matters discussed is trying to stay away from them for a few weeks or a few months. Try to be patient, try to not contact them. If you came across or they may be visit to your home, try to avoid talking with them. Just give smiles to them.

In this way they would be surprised with your attitude. They will probably feel something offense committed by them. Maybe they will try to contact you or it maybe not. If they contact you, ignore it. If they do not call you, maybe they were giving you some space to solve the 'problem' that you are facing.

After a few weeks, if they are still trying in touch with you, it's very well. If they do not call you, then you should contact them. And surely they will ask why you want to avoid to meet them.

Suggest to them to meet. The best thing you should do is to meet them alone. Ideally, meet them at place without noisy. Choose a quiet place. And chat as usual with them to ensure that you and them good mood. It is also good to control your heart beat.

The most important thing before you express your feelings is to know their attitude. Cheerful type, quiet or serious, each has different ways before you express your feelings. That three personality’s moods are different. And you should be smart to handle it.

If they are the kind of cheerful, certainly it is quite difficult for you to find the right time to express your feelings. It’s because if not on the right time, undoubtedly they would consider it just a joke from you. But it's very sure when you are away from them for some time as suggested, their cheerful attitude is not like it used to. They would await details of your discretion. They want to know why you try to avoid them before.

Quiet and serious types are not much different and not so difficult for you to have the space to express your feelings.

Right now you should be confident to express your feeling to them. Tell them why you do not want to meet. Silence without a word and try to avoid them because you were thinking something heavy. And you feel that things should not happen but it was too late because it was absorb into your heart. And you meet them now because you not able to bear it anymore.

They definitely surprised with your speech. And wonder what the problem is so heavily on you. Right now you should be serious.

Expressed to them confidently but in the right tone, "I really love you." Look their eyes. Or maybe for the women, you are shy, you can bow looked down. You have to compose your own words so that they are not misunderstood.

Maybe you can use this sentence.

"I really love you. I do not know why all of this feeling suddenly comes in my heart. Maybe you feel strange with it. But this is my acknowledgment. It's the fact that I own can't be avoidable. It's alright if you cannot accept me. I just want to express what that over the years I latency. I just hope if you cannot accept me more than as a friend, we stay in touch. I do not want because of I express my feelings, our fellowship is broken and you then try to avoid me. I hope it never happened."

Try to throw them your smile, and continue your words.

"If you need time to think about this, take as much time as you need. I will wait for the answer."

And after that, try to insert a little joke.

"But if it should not be long. I fear while waiting, I will die because poor appetite to eat."

The most important thing before you express is ready to receive any answer from them. You should be positive. Sentences given above are after you really positive to receive any reply from them. Whether they rejects or accepts, your friendship is unbreakable. That's why you have to be ready.

People We Know But Do Not Close

Exactly, the same steps you should take to express your feeling to this person. Actually it is quite simple when compared with people we know and close. Why? Because our likes feeling continue to exist and do not start from a friendship.

But to express your feelings to them, you should start to recognize step closer. How?

If previously you just turn smile and only chat concerning work or assignments, you should change your chat to a more leisurely pace. Try to come closer and begin to care about them. Take effort to make your relationship with them closer first.

If they gives a positive reaction to you and do not hesitate to chat and sometimes go out with you, you can start the next step. Only on this situation, you do not have to wait several weeks or months with no contact.

Use the same step discussed before with brings them to a quiet and comfortable place. Expressed them what crystallized in your heart. You can use the same sentence as above but change it to appropriate words because they are different with 'We Know and Close To Us' situation.

What is most important, you are positive to receive any reply from them.

People We Know, But They Does Not Know Us

Just like with 'People We Know But Do Not Close’. But for this group, you first aim to be a friend to them. Then, take the same steps as above for you and they becomes more closely. Start concerned about them. Then, after getting positive reactions in which they seem comfortable with you, begin steps to express your feelings to them.

That is how to tell someone you like them. :)

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